Have one more or two gifts left to buy and we are done!  Before we (husband & I) went shopping we made our rounds....brought a gift to the principal, assistant principal, the guidence counselor, the police and the juvenile detentive.  Nothing big....just some cookies and coffee.  It was just a gesture to let them know they are appreciated because they are. Found out on-line that T was planning on doing woo sticks (another name wet sticks) in which they dip their joint or cigarette into phermeldahide (embalming fluid).  Wonderful.  Gives them a cheap high and from what I heard from my son's friend's mom.....it's been my son's drug of choice lately!  And to think he should be in rehab right now.  DAM.  I don't know where he is or what he's doing but it's driving me nuts.  I hate weekends.   Sorry to be such a downer.  I just wish we could get him somewhere to protect him from himself.  Looks like the court date can't be moved up because we never heard back from the lawyer.......