Well, found out that we cannot get financial help for the non-covered days.  Now that our son will be in rehab I can focus on returning to work....wherever that is going to be.   The good news is T was in a good mood today.  He had a doctor's appointment and I thought he was going to be surly and a real pain in the neck but he was actually quite personable and open with me.  It was so nice.  Perhaps he is relieved that he will be getting some help?