T went to the next assessment, which was today and still isn't looking like a good candidate.  He is upset that he won't be able to have an IPOD (which floors me because he doesn't even own one anymore) or allowed to have other luxuries.  I am so .......upset?  I don't know what or how to describe how I feel...  He is so spoiled and still hasn't had any real consequences for his actions.  Now my husband is going to give him $25.00 to go to a concert for toight!!!  I guess he figures that our son will be going into rehab or detention soon that it really doesn't matter what we do at this point.  After T kept me up all night worrying about him and wondering if he'd was going to be around for the assessment.....and now a concert tonight....arrrgghh!  Maybe we shouldn't try and convince our son that treatment is better than detention. He may just have to learn the hard way...