T didn't come home last night.  I ended up calling the police to report at 4:30AM.  I went back to bed and woke up to find him still missing.  He did call, however, and apologized!  He said he fell asleep at his friend's house around midnight and no one woke him up.  Even if that is the truth - just the fact that he called and apologized is a huge step!  Unfortunately, because he's so used to not abiding by our rules and continues to do want he wants, and even though there has been an improvement, he still didn't listen to me when I asked him to come home.  He said he will ...later.  It's frustrating...........