Had high hopes last night that T was going to school today.  He is the one who said he wanted to go.  He also said he would go for a drug assessment, too.  Perhaps he will go for an assessment if it's later in the day because the problem is getting up.  When I went to wake him he told me to get him later because he was too tired but would get up for the next class.  Well.......now he has a "bad headache" and said he'll go later.  Great.Oh.....and he gave me my phone back.  After he ran off with it I had it turned off.  I wasn't sure if he was going to return it whole or not.  He did.   I had asked our good friend, the emergency room doctor, to talk to my husband.  Since my husband is having problems dealing with this....I thought our friend could help him.  They ended u going out for a beer to chat.  Unfortunately, they didn't talk about what he did to me about boundries.  I never asked him to bring that up but since the dr. knew our struggles....I thought he would.  And he doesn't have any magic answers.  He said if he did....he'd be a lot richer. On another note:  I have a strong feeling that the school district administration is not going to have the speaker I recommended for the teacher in-service.  Perhaps I think that way is because the curiculum director is not responding to my e-mails.  I love the way these people pass the buck.  All along the principal lead me to believe it was up to the director and now I understand it's been up to the director all along..........  Losers........