This morning we heard T's alarm go off.  He set his phone alarm.  We had to go in and make sure he was up.  He got up!  He then asked my husband to buy him a pack of cigarettes.  Instead of telling him no, my husband said he didn't have time (which he didn't).  My husband is good about avoiding situtations like this.  My son then asked me to stop at the store to get him some.  I told him no.  T then said he wasn't going to go to school.  I said "Well, if that's your decision......"  T then got in the shower.....and was waiting for me to take him to school.  So.......another bright spot.  I feel sooo much better today!  So much so that I have to go and get some things done that I haven't had the energy to do before!