Okay - How much more can we take here? Yesterday T-Man had the school call me an hour after he was there telling me he wasn't feeling well. I was told he said he threw up. I drove up there to get him....no T-Man. He called my cell from home and said he rode a bike home. When I got home he said he was hungry and asked if I'd make him a salad (9 AM). I did and after he ate, he made himself two sandwiches, and ate a big bowl of cereal. When finished he said he was hot, needed fresh air, hopped on his bike and off he went and didn't come home until midnight. Today he never even went to school. He said he had a bad headache and slept in until 10:30 - said he wasn't hungry, and took off again on a bike and here it's past midnight and no sign of him. Naturally, we called the police. Oh.....he just called and said he was on his way home. We couldn't get a hold of him all day on his phone (yes we turned it back on) ....it's going off tomorrow. My husband thought it was a good idea to turn it back on for him. Whatever. I don't know what he expected. We asked T what was wrong...why is he acting this way? T says he's under a lot of stress but didn't want to talk about it. Does anyone know anything about a probate warrant? A friend of ours has a friend who used to be a juvenile detective suggested this. We would have to hire a lawyer to get him evaluated by a psychiatrist. I guess he'd have to be admitted into a psych ward. I have to get more information. Another friend of ours gave us a lawyer's name.
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hey hun sounds like you having a tougth time. i live in the uk so dont know any thing about probate warrant .sorry hun. thinking of you and here .x.x.x
I wish I knew, but i don\'t..
About the phone.. Is it technically yours? If so, you might want him to have it so you can check his calls and/or at least have a hope of getting hold of him..
Anyway, I hope that lawyer can give you some advide and soon... :o(
Take care of yourself, too, please..
Hmmmm, does the eating pattern seem different to you?
OK, about the phone. My thoughts are, let him have it if you are paying for the record of incoming and outgoing calls record...it could give you and the courts some idea of who he is mixed up with. Also, if for some reason he leaves without coming back for an extended time, you have numbers to start dialing......
I don\'t know anything about the warrant. I wonder if you took the list of incidents over these past few months to a psychiatrist if they would consider his behavior \"out there\" enough to have him committed involuntarily; it is such a night and day change in his behavior, affect and relationships that perhaps this is not really drugs per se but psychiatric?? I don\'t know, just trying to cover the bases.
The lack of info and action must be very frustrating for you!!!!! Hang in there and take a moment for yourself today. Take Care!