It didn't work out.  No matter how hard I try - to help my son....he tries harder not to work with me.  I was pressing for drug court all along in the system and finally got the opportunity to sit down with the PO and my son rejected it.  Right in front of the PO, he told me to F-OFF.  It's one disappointment after another.  He is also mad at me for notifying the detective about the fight.  He had heard that I called the detective.  I should have had the hospital call the police.  The detective did say he would keep this quite and T won't know I called.  Right.  Now T really isn't going to trust me.  He thinks I am his enemy.  I know it's part of his drug problem...blaming others for his misdeeds.  It's always someone elses fault....never his.