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my sister who my father lives with ....put up a message on ...this ...space they set up so just my brothers and sisters Gould talk in there ...because we dident want my dad to here ..what we were talking about ...we don't want to upset him he is going through to much .as it is .....so my sister ...sent us a message that he was in the hospital ....and than things dident look good ..so if we wanted to see him now would be a good time ....but we dident want to be all going there at the same time so we aranged ...our visites so ..that we all come at diferant times ....that way we all get a good visit with our day ...and it I sent so hard on him and our sister gets a break ....she has finally goten some help ...someone comes in the morning ..during the weak ...and makes him his breakfast ...and a shower if he is up to it ....after ..that ..someone comes in ...and makes him his lunch ...if he can eat .....they cleanup his room ...and just visit ..what ever he wants ...this person they have to pay for ..but they are trying to get it covered ....so far no bills have come in .....starting ..this past Monday ...some one will be coming in after ...the lunch person leaves at 2:00 ..and staying until 4:00 ...and my sister gets home around 4:30 .....so he will only be alone for half an hour ....he schould not be alone ....but that is the best we can do ....but my sister is still working on it ......some nights she has to sleep in his room when he is having a bad night ..he gets scared ...but if someone is there he feels better ...and ..sometimes he needs help to go to the bathroom ...because he is too weak ..........when we were there ..he only had 2 good days ....and we took him out to supper ..he enjoyed that ...took him to the doctors ...that doctor is a dick ..and raised his voice to my father ..and would not answer a question my father wanted answered ....so I dident want my father to get any more upset so I raised my voice ..to the doctors leaval and said you are not answering my fathers question and repeated the question ....this happened three times ...until he said ...I have to star from the beginning to answer the question .......so ..I said we would listen ....and he lowered his voice ..because I was ..not letting him getting away with that ....and he still only answered half the question ....and my dad had ..a sorre  throught ..and he just said it was from coffins and wouldn't even look dowen his throught ...I was just so poised ..after i cane out of there ..................................................................................................