hi

we got some very bad newes today ....last night ..my  husbands friend he goes hunting and tring with all the time took a very bad strick .......he is not in pain ..but ..one side is parilised and his toung is to so he can't talk ....they tryed to get him to right all he rites is his name ....he is reconising ...people he was close to ...and when my h came in to see him at the hospital today he was realy trying to talk to him ....and a tier ran Dowen his check so I wiped it away ...his one lung on the side that is pare lised is not working well .....so the parts of the brain for speech is dead ....the right side is ..paralyzed and the part of the brain that that is in is dead ....he has a one present chance of living ..but that wouldent be living and he wouldent want to live hat way ....he was always in the bush hunting or traping ..very active ....he always told everyone that if anything ever happened to him he dident want to live that way he would sooner die .........if he was to love the brain damage would never get better and he would never walk ..he would need constant care .....so ....they have an order to not resuitate .....his brain is swelling ..as well and so far there is nothing they can do about that ...but he knowes ..us ..and other friends and family ....when my h came in he realy tryed so hard to talk to hom .....it is hard to see him this way ...when you are use to seeing him so active ...and animated ...I am happy I went to see him .....and I got to see his daughters and wife .....I use to visit them a lot more ....but we like diferant things ...she is very schoull...likes to go on vacations ware it is hot ...I can't do that ..and she likes to go to the casinos ..I dont ..like that ..I am just plain anty schoulchel....I realy like the hole family ...but I was kidding feeling like a bad friend ...since I hadent seen her in a while ....years .....but it seams that when I make friends .....it doesent mater how long we are apart. ....we still remain close ....our friend was like that with me to ...he always talked and teased me when he saw me ......he could use your prayers ...........one of the boys that they go traping with and hunting with ....he is not very schoschul ...and realy my h and ...there friend in the hospital is his only good friends ......so he is taking it very hard ..he couldent go into the hospital ...I think he is in schock and he tends to get. depresed and he is doing a lot of sleeping ...and he said he wants to rember him the way he was ......I think. he also doesent want to go in there and break dowen ......so it is a mater of tome .....I don't know what my h is going to do eather....they. we're to gether ...hunting ..fishing and traping so much ...and ..my h friend owen ded the trap line ....and my h can't look-after it ...but right now they just have to keep it up and his mothers camp across the lack from the trap camp ...but he can't over do it ........I am tired ..I find it has taken a lot of energy out of me ...it was hard to see him that way ....his family is doing good ..concidering ...but they have talked to all the doctors and looked at all the test results .....and they know what he would want ....the doctor daus that he will just deteriate ...because he hs awell ing of the brain and they can't stop it ...so he will just ..keep sleeping more often and for longer ....as it is he is only awak for up to 10 or 15 minits ...but he was up to 20 minits when we went to see him and than he couldent keep his eyes open ...the doctor says it is the brain damage that is making him sleep ....he is not in pain ....I ther than being  not able to talk ...I hope you will have some prayers ..for him ....and for his family and close friends ....take. care. everyone God bless