hi
well my dad is up from Vancouver island for a visit ..and my great aunts birthday party ......it schould be fun ......I have visited with him it was so good to see him ..if I am feeling good I will see him on Sunday Father's Day .....I am sending our gift with my h tomorow ..to my sisters ..in case I can't make it ...she got him the fishing pool and we got him the real ...kind of have to give them to him together ..lol .....my h is going for more blood teats and an ex Ray ....get an oil change ....and pick up a few gerocries ...I told him if he couldent do it all not to ....he is doing a lot more ..he has goten back to pestering me about ..when I do what jobs in the house ...he likes everything done his way but I have to work around the migrains .....he just says you always have a migrain ....he won't get me up in the morning ....and than complains when I am up and dowen at night....when he gets negative ..it brings me dowen ..I start not feeling good I get sad and I just want to go to my room ...so tonight he started ..and I told him if he dident have anything to say I wasent sitting with him ......i couldent have supper the migrain was to bad ..so I was going to go on the couch and he complained that I never sit with him for supp ..with is an axuration ...so I sat with him and he was just comming out with negative stuf ..so I got up to leave ..and he said ware are you going and I told him I don't need to sit here lising to that ....so he changed his tune ...now he just came out of the bed room and told me the time ....and he sayes it in a way you know he isent happy ......he is thinking of me ...but I have to weaight a little bit befor I can take a pill for the migrain .......fun fun. ..lol .....I am doing better and he is doing better ..well ..time to take the pill and get to bed ...take care everyone ....rember your important .....and you don't need to take others negatitivet ....God blessĀ
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minnie, i sure hope husband can become more compassionate toward you and your pain. i don\'t think i could live like that. i\'d hide all the time, so good for you to stand your ground at the dinner table.
i really hope you feel well enough to go to the party, but please don\'t force yourself. having hubby take the gift is a good idea.
hope all works out.
hugs!
the party is tomorow ...so still don\'t know if I can go ....but I will be seeing my dad this weak ....thankyou ....for reading my post ...take care ...God bless
Hugs! My heart aches for you. I so hope things get better.
I am not there that often, but have you ever checked in with Caring for Aging Parent\'s? They have really helped me a lot.
xoxo
thankyou ..I couldent go to the party but I talked to him on the phone ....my dad .....he has a cold now ..so can\'t go see him ...can\'t get my h sick ....so we go on Skype .....I was very blesed to have the father I have ...and I inow it ....take care ..God bless