hi
we had our friend come visit yesterday and she stayed the night .....we have all been friends but more than just friends ....more like family since grade school .....we have been there when she needed us ..she went through a very bad depreshion for a few years and we had to end a lot of time with her staying at her place ....talking on the phone ...and she would talk to us seperate you to ......because we all have a unicque .relationship ..so this summer we hardly seen her ...she has been doing real good ...she came to watch the telethon with us and made us put up our tree ....it was realy good to see her ....I would of loved to go for the rides to pick her up and take her home ..but I am to motion sick ....and I would just end up with a migrain ..she lives in the city .....when we were maried to our x s ...we still both with our other spouses visited her ......and when our maried ges broke up ..she was the one who got us back together ....she new we belonged together ..she let us both know that the other was not with there spouse any more ......and we had been together when we were teanagers .......but that is a long story .....so we were both thinking the same thing ....we would rather live with what we had ..than to find out the other one dident love us any more ...so she worked on us ...to just give it a try ....she got mt h to call me she said all she can do is hang up on you ...so he called ...and I said hellow and no answer but I just new it was him on the other end ....than he hung up ..so I weaited and just said call again and a few minits later he caled again ...and ..we said helpw and I said I know who you are ....and he asked me if I wanted to go out ..and I thought about it ...because ...I was so afraid to find out he dident love me any more I dident think I could live with that so I said I just need a little time to .......take this all in ....can we make the date for next weakend ...so we did ...and from that first day we went out ..we have been together ever since ....and have ...been to visit our friend every ware she has moved .....and we three have always been there for each other ...so this was a good cupple of days ...I just thought I would shair ......this .....I think we need to here good things ...that happen ...acknolage them .....so we rember there is good ..in this world .....at a time like this we can see back and relise what we have had in our life ....and bring it to the for frount ...and concentrate on these good memories ....to chase away the dark .....it can't live in this light ...............I see you have been opening up lately ....it is very good to see ...I love that you are answering my posts ..thankyou ...take care ...God blessĀ
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Hey honey,
I\'m so glad you had a good couple of days with your friend. You\'re absolutely right about sharing the good things when there\'s so much dark in our lives. I\'m so glad she got you back with your ex at the time. That\'s a great friend.
Hugs,
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Mary Ellen
What a great story! I hope you had a wonderful visit. I still see my friends from my childhood and they are the best and I am blessed to have my old AND new friends, as in you.
xoxo