was a long day, but it has come to an end. hope i have half her strenght, fought for a week after we knew. fought for 26 months after she knew. now shes at peace. took 16 years but shes back with her husband, her job is now done, may she rest in peace. thank you all for your kind words.  for some reason i just want to go watch the ocean. dont know why that came into my head before. guess we all have these things wondering thru our heads. thank you