Another day alone, it's driving me crazy.I have no place to go I don't have the energy or I just don't want to see anybody.I guess our lives have to go on it's so hard I still believe he's going to come through that door or call me to see how i'm doing.my life sucks. I go to the doctor he justs drugs me I take a pill to stay awake and pills to get me to sleep.I have only had one dream of justin, I went to my sister's and there was justin sitting in a recliner I ran to him hugging kissing and saying you are back,he said mom i'm ok pushing me away cause I was all over him . I woke up.In the dream I was on cloud nine,haven't dreamed of him since. I don't know how to go on one minute you think i'm making progress then it just knocks me down again. Wow what a life..... My justin didn't deserve to die he made a big mistake taking those pills to make the pain go away.I know he choose to take them (nobody told him to do it).I have doubts of IS there really a heaven? Scares me to death. If there is I can't wait to see justin again,jfm24,vicki. All of our chilren didn't deserve to die I just want to know why us?jfm24,vicki
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I feel exactly the way you do. Sunday will be 7 months and I feel worse now than I did a few months ago. I don\'t want to work, or see people either. When I am at home I don\'t want to answer the door or the phone. We have to find our inner strength somewhere. We have to dig down deep for it and find it and get through this, together, one day at a time. Hang in there. You\'re not alone and I will be here all day if you want to talk.
thanks so much for the encouragement.i had a very bad day i was thinking how happy that moment was when i had all my children.it was a special moment.I thought i raised my son up not to take drugs i would of never thought he would die from a overdose.it\'s a challange now to keep going .i haven\'t seen my grandson since labor day.she told me last week i can only see braden once a month.i was so shocked i always kept braden when they were working and we have a special bond. now she\'s taking him away from me.hugs and prayers,jfm24,vicki
Hang in there Vicki! Maybe you could gather together some pictures of Justin and some other mementos of him and put them in a scrapbook to look at and share with others(it might be a good thing to eventually pass on to your grandson-a way for him to remember his father). You are in my thoughts and prayers:0]