My marriage is at an all time low.  My husband is mopey and grouchy all the time.  He won't be intimate with me anymore.  He looks at pictures of pretty ladies. I've tried to loose weight and look better.  The weight just won't go.  I worked out at gym for a year and changed my eating habits.  It didn't work well. My son is a handful.  I don't want to start over again.  I can't do it.  It would probably kill me.