My husband has been a nag lately.  He's been treating me like a child thinking it's "for my own good".  It really hurts my feelings when he is like that.  I tell him how I feel and he apologizes but goes back to doing it again.  That is the problem with marrying an older man.  They think they have the right to tell you what to do.  My son doesn't want to listen to me.  It makes me very angry.  I under a lot of stress right now because of my family.  They both need to mellow out or I will go crazy.  I will have a talk with my husband about how he is treating me.  There is not much I can do about my son.