Well, another Sunday an my husband is angry again. He mad because my son pissed all over the toilet and on the floor when he went to the bathroom this morning. My husband will be grouchy all day probably.
I love my son and I try to like him but he is mostly just a source of grief for me. He cause so many problems with his carelessness. He just doesn't think. I know I'm being selfish but I don't want to spend the rest of my life suffering. I do put my son first but a lot of his problem now is he just doesn't use his head. He know stupid things like this will get him in trouble. He doesn' like being in trouble but he keeps doing stupid stuff.
I've spoken to him many times about this but he just doesn't seem to get it.
I'm not looking forward to the rest of the day. I just want to go back to bed and make it go away.
I love my son and I try to like him but he is mostly just a source of grief for me. He cause so many problems with his carelessness. He just doesn't think. I know I'm being selfish but I don't want to spend the rest of my life suffering. I do put my son first but a lot of his problem now is he just doesn't use his head. He know stupid things like this will get him in trouble. He doesn' like being in trouble but he keeps doing stupid stuff.
I've spoken to him many times about this but he just doesn't seem to get it.
I'm not looking forward to the rest of the day. I just want to go back to bed and make it go away.
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Dear Jen, Your son is not the problem, bless his heart + yours. His illness is the problem that cause his thinking errors. Oh, my I know from experience!!!!{: Your shoes fit me very well!!!
This is the nature of children to wake up with one nerve left and to have them standing on it. But we love them with all of our hearts anyways.
Please don\'t take the situation or blame about your sons behavior all upon yourself,one day at a time and my prayers are with you, sometimes if possible find acouple 10 -15 minutes for some alone time.
It is one thing to get upset at a situation BUT to hang onto that anger all day is another thing altogether. I hope your husband learns to let go of his anger and not be taking it out on you. It\'s just not fair.
Rita