My husband is being a jerk. I finally got my first SSA payment and my dr. said a needed someone to handle my money because I wasn't capable which is BS. I named my husband to handle my money because it was the most convenience and I trust him. There are specific rules to what can be done with the money and they review it every year. He stressed out over what to do with the money because he doesn't see the difference between paying one type of bill than paying another. Then I get a letter from child support saying they are going to close my son's case. My husband asked how much my ex owed and I said "I don't remember." Then he snaps, "What do you mean you don't remember, blah, blah, blah!?" So I'm suppose to remember every detail of my life for him!? First he whines about not having money, now he gets some and he is still unhappy. He gets mad at me for not remembering when can't remember hardly anything. This partnership sure isn't balanced. Oh yea, he did get me a bunch of medicine for being sick.
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jenns, when you first get your ssa it usually takes about a yeare to prove to the dr.and ss that we aren`t going manic and not take care of our bills.tell your husband that it is all you can do to remember what you do and that the child support people has keep up with how much he owes and has pd.he should get your medicine that is a responcibily not a priviledge!!! no it doesn`t sound very balanced but you both are under a lot of stress and probebly have been for a long time ,get him focused on how to work together now and in the future.i don`t know him so i cant` say but some people get mad when they can`t spend your money on what they want.