Day 10

On Day 8 I visited my mother sober.  What a diffence it was having a nice conversation with her that night and the following morning not hung over.  It was the best visit I have had with her in years.
Well today is the start of Day 11.
We are having friends over for my middle son's 19th birthday.  The adults will be drinking.  I feel very strong about not joining in today.  Strong but not overconfident.  I plan on buying some Pelligrino sparkling water that I am going to have for myself.
I beat back a strong urge going to my mother's house.  That was always my time to get a bottle on the way to her house.  My wife always knew when I was drinking and it was an opportunity to get wasted and her not know. 
I remembered (or more accurately God helped me remember) an old thing I used to do when I was quitting smoking which was to talk to myself.  I yelled at myself in the car telling myself that I was not going to give into the urge.  I yelled loud at myself in the car.  It worked.  Thank you Holy Spirit.

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citychick2011
citychick2011

I have been drinking a lot of pelligrino as well....cheers!
shendelzare
shendelzare

you know what i used to do this is gonna sound really nerrdy and dorky but it works i make battle cries in my mind (i read alot of fantasy novels and play video games) i imagine like im on the battle field about to charge and the drug is the enemy
may elune shine her light upon you my friend
ishu\'deb diabul