Let's get creative with a new font.  Tonight there have been a lot of very real people, with very real dilemas exposing some pretty vulnerable stuff here.  It just seems to have hit me how real it is.  I've always been a bit of a geek, which means I have always been ahead of the curve with regard to technology, but behind the curve with regard to social skills.  My natural tendancy is to hide behind an honest attempt to connect and acknowlege what someone is feeling, and to not pay much attention to my needs.  That's a problem, because when I define a relationship that way, when my needs or wants are  not met, I am disappointed   I am not sensitive, I am insecure.