Hey Dad, hows it all going with you?? Am I getting this right?? I'm a bit scared that this is the calm before the storm you know! The roller coaster ride of grief is just as likely to up end me and dump me fair and square on my butt one of these days and I will be back to square one!!In the meantime, I guess all I can do is take each day as it comes and hope that everything is okay. We are going to fly down and see Mum in ten days, that is going to be hard, I know I will be upset, and she will be upset, but we will keep fingers crossed that it all works out.she is going to move Dad, and I'm not trying to stop her, but I am having trouble getting her to understand that it is up to her! I can't do anything until she has sorted it out and done some of the  things herself. I can't find her a place to rent, or put the villa on the market, she has to do that...but she seems to be waiting for something to be done..not sure by who..but she keeps saying "they"are holding her up....no one is but her!!!!!! Anyway, I will wait and see, she may change her mind next week!So old fella, what have you been up to? I bet you have redesigned the whole place by now, you never could look at buildings without finding a better way to build them!!  You know what we are doing, coz you can watch us all the time, think you have a better veiw than us, and can see when we get silly,  I guess I must be doing okay, coz I haven't felt a kick in the pants yet!!  LOLI love you Dad, I don't know how this world keep going without you here!hugs, smooches, cuddles....yack to ya laterMargyXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX