Well Dad, today is, well today just is!.... I haven't got Mum's letter yet, so i can't tell you want it is about, but she rang yesterday and gave me S's phone number in case I wanted to call her, i think the letter must be a bit odd/nutty/weird if she thinks I will need to talk to someone about it!!!!!!I know I'm not 'getting over' /dealing with your death very well, but it is just so hard to do.... Mum really needs a shoulder to lean on all the time, and you know how she is, by the time she relizes I need someone to lean on as well it will be years away...so for now I am plodding on, being there for her, doing what I can, letting her talk out all her worries/confusion/anger.... and hoping that she will manage to ..... well just hoping she stays around a while longer, I'm not ready to lose you both right now!!!!!!!I love you Dad, miss you like crazy.... love ya heaps Dad xxxxxxxx
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Hi, dilli, and it is great you are there for your mum - and it is hard for you that she can\'t support you back very well. Can I just say that, being in the same position as your mum, I find it hard to support my lovely daughters and their children, as we are all feeling the same thing. BUT, like you, they try to be here for me! Hope your day is a brighter one - stay well and you and your beloved dad, and your mum, are in my prayers. Love and hugs to you.