Time for an update Dad.Mum is talking about moving again, I really don't know what to do. One day she wants to move the next she doesn't. One day she is so sick, the next she is fine. she is still shutting out anyones grief but her own, but i knew she would be like that. It doesn't help that she won't acknowledge that the rest of us are hurting as well. She doesn't see that she is hurting me by the way she acts. you always had a way of smoothing her over and making everything ok, now she just rages on about crap, she has weird ideas about "they".... you know, they are doing this or that, or "they"are trying to lock her up....if she would just settle a bit, take the time to see we are all hurting just as much as she is.....but its Mum, and you know her, oh well, I really should just deal with it somehow, let you have a peaceful  time.....love ya heap Dad, xx