Okay, so I'm damned if I do, damned if I don't.....Mum is onto the ÿou are all trying to lock me away in a "place" bullshit now!!!!!!!!!Why can't she just see that we ar eonly doing what she has asked, and she not locked away anywhere for petes sake! She is in her own villa and able to come and go as she pleases, she can even sell the place if she wants and move. But Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, she can't see that, she expects the whole world to do everything for her, and dumps all her grief and sadness on me.Has she forgotten that I have lost him as well????  Does she think that I dont grieve the loss of someone who has been my best friend, rock, father???? Can't she hear the pain in my voice when she starts on her rambling????I am never going to ajust to Dad dying with all this crap happening..............I just want to cry and start to learn how to live without him, ...............................