Mum is at it again Dad. she is really sick, but refuses to see a doctor or go to the hospital....She is tearing A and J and me apart with her anger and sadness. A hasn't seen her since your funeral, J see's her once every ten days or so...seems that about all she can handle of Mum and how she is acting.I really have no idea on how to help her. She rang me 5 times last night, telling me she wants to move and start fresh someplace else, now this morning ( 4 phone calls) she tells me she won't move, she is too sick, and she won't get treatment for the sickness!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A is not dealing with your death any bette than i am, but at least J seems to be getting herself together, but them she always put herself before anyone else......I am getting to the bitter anger stage....NOT GOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!