Aw. Timbuktu and Lorelei, you two are so good to me. Ha. Poor old ed. I love that you refer to him as poor old ed. So today has been interesting. Would you believe last nite I decided to check out a dating website? Furthermore, I found the boy I had a crush on in 7th grade. I used to fantasize that I found him after a million years and we fell in love! Ha. Could you imagine. I dont relaly think he is a soul-mate but I should probly share that nugget cus it migh tmake him laugh.Started filing today. Dont know how things will turn out but I think it is going well. Just waiting on his input on a few things to get it squared away and I can send it to the courthouse!After I finished that part... I decided, why the hell not, and signed up for the dating website. Withing seconds some guy was proding me for info. Would you believe he is a police officer in my tiny hamlet of a town??? Now I am afraid he is gonna find me or stalk me. He knows what I look like and there isnt a whole lot of people to sort thru. Ah well. Hopefully he is a good guy and I dont have to worry. I emailed my sister, an ex-cop, right away, tho. To see how much of a safety issue I may have caused. Argh. Surreal.No work today. At least nothing pressing. I am awaiting 3 packages and yet the UPS guy, and the FedEx guy just keep driving by. Argh.... A lil Bangles for your lyrical pleasure. Six o'clock already I was just in the middle of a dream I was kissin' Valentino By a crystal blue Italian stream But I can't be late 'Cause then I guess I just won't get paid These are the days When you wish your bed was already made It's just another manic Monday I wish it was Sunday 'Cause that's my funday My I don't have to runday It's just another manic Monday Have to catch an early train Got to be to work by nine And if I had an air-o-plane I still couldn't make it on time 'Cause it takes me so long Just to figure out what I'm gonna wear Blame it on the train But the boss is already there All of the nights Why did my lover have to pick last night To get down Doesn't it matter That I have to feed the both of us Employment's down He tells me in his bedroom voice C'mon honey, let's go make some noise Time it goes so fast When you're having fun LOL.
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Please be careful on these dating sites. If this guy is prodding so quick, stop it now!!!!! I am telling you these kinds are usually no good. My ex son in law is on eharmoney and because his daughter knows his password we can read all his crap. He pushes these girls way too fast, lies, makes up stuff and we would love to let some of the gals know what a creep he really is. Most seem to catch on really fast as they stop communication by blocking him. The other ones I worry about, luckily they all seem to be living quite a distance away so that helps a lot. I wonder if he would be honest enought to tell them he is a convicted spousal abuser, he cannot accompany his own kid on a school field trip due to this. He is a control freak, and has had at least 2 longer term relationships in which both women left him due to it. His own daughter does not want to be near him, you should read the letter she wrote to the court in the change of custody case. The judge signed the temp order last Friday and we will go tomorrow to pick it up along with the summons and will be having the sherriffs dept serve him at work. We were going to have a friend serve him at home but we decided not to as the jerk owns a gun, also a no-no, and just might get angry enought o threaten the server with it. So law enforcement will be notified of this before service. I will be blocking his numbers on my phone and my daughter has his # keyed in her cell so she can see if he calls so she won\'t answer cause he is going to be irate. I also need to write out an attachment and file it to request the court to give him a verbal order of staying away. Or if not, I know damn well I will have to get a DV order, as he has threatened us before and will again. G-daughter most likely have to suffer some visitation, but she says 1 day only , 1 time a month and he has to come here and cannot leave with her. She is old enough to talk to judge and mediator alone and be apptd counsel if she wants. Since she lives here I do not want this creep anywhere near me or my house so I will have to make sure my daughter gets the point across in court. The case is in another county but after her 1st appearance she should be having the case moved here, we requested it in the papers. Courts a lot of fun, huh.
LOl on the fedx and ups...when it is my reg driver no problem, but we have had a substitute lately and he always passes us up, reverses and hollers at us...is this 1710? Our st #\'s are off here so it is confusing to the newbies LOL. I can tell them where they need to go. County is so backlogged on this issue it will be 10 years before they get the numbering right.
take care, be careful and remember, those dating sites can work but if it seems to good to be true it probably is. They all lie a lot, even the women. Don\'t ask my why. My daughter met her b/f on yahoo, but since he is local and has a public job he couldn\'t hide much. Plus it took him a year to just get her to go out with him, lot of winking it took LOL
lorelei
You always crack me up! Sure didn\'t let the grass grow under your feet! Which is great! If I were you I\'d call the police dept and check him out.
You\'re sounding strong and forward looking. I\'m so proud of you. Your resilience is breathtaking. I wish I could remember lyrics the way you can but what came to mind is the one from Hairspray(of course)
something about
we\'ve got so far to go
the past is the past
gosh, I\'ve heard it l00 times and can\'t remember, but I\'m sure it fits!