im very depressed so please pray for me some people by me have said some things that have hurt me bad the have judged me on subject that drives me crazy i just feel like i dont even deserve to be here i strive to be good but people just ignore it and put me down or say mean things why i never judge i just try to love and be kind but guess noone cares about that this is a evil world where noone cares about feelings its so sad i just pray god will get me through this and help me cause i cant go on much longer this way feeling like im nothing and feeling numb like i could just sleep and never wake up i dont like feeling like this so please pray for me thanks
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Oh my friend, contrary to your thoughts you are a wonderful, loving, kind, generous human being. I love waking to your hugs each day. You bring joy to so many. These people have no idea of who you really are. Please don\'t pay heed to what they say, it simply isn\'t true. I am so sorry you are going through this, as you don\'t deserve to be treated in this fashion, it is bad behavior on their part. I am so sorry you feel you shouldn\'t be here, simply not true. You should be here and know you have good friends who really care about you. I think of you daily. and so glad to have met you. You make my day. If you need to talk please feel free to write me. Take care my friend. Jan
You are a good, kind person, if people cant say or be nice they arent real friend.You can get in tiffs, make up and be together again, we always may not agree on what someone may say.That is cruel and you don\'t deserve it, I love you, your my friend and my friends are tough with me, I dislike them, I might not care what they say, but Im greatful for them.Hang in there, don\'t let a few bad apples riun the whole basket, MAWOY. GB Mary
Oh, sweety, I am so sorry people are attacking you, if you can try to ignore them, I try to do that and it helps, I am praying for you, MLP
I\'m sorry people can be mean, don\'t let them change who you are. I value you as a person and always respect your opinion. You are a kind person and a very loving person. I thank God that you are my friend.
Bullies are very hard to deal with, I have had them in my life also. I have learned to stand up to them, but it is a delicate thing to stand up to bullies, please be careful. I hope to get to know you.
I feel the same way....but you know what? For me, I think I am juswt drawn and attracted to people who hurt me and abuse me because that is all I know...so meanwhile I am going to therapy, groups, socializing alone so I can get better, think clearly...start new and fresh....thank you for your comment! I just prayed for you...hope it gets better!
Your are definitely in my prayers. It is so sad that some people felt that they had to elivate themselves by judge and condemnind you. Try to leave their judgements with them and believe the truth: your are precious, worthy, valuable, and deserving. You were born that way and you will die that way. No one can take that truth away from you except yourself by not believing.
Hey hun. Don\'t let others get you down. Remember that God is always there for you to turn to when you need Him. This world is a pretty nasty place, but just think of your reward in Heaven when you meet God face-to-face and you are able to count yourself spotless before Him. Keep being the wonderful person you are. There are others out there that recognise you and think you are a great person. They just don\'t always come out and say it. This is gonna sound silly, but I have the urge to say it anyway: \"Sticks and stones will hurt my bones, but words will EVER hurt me!\" Love ya sweetie. You are in my prayers. *Bear Hugs*
thank u for ur support and i wanted to say i will be here to support u too- if u want me too- don\'t let other people get u down- i was very reluctant at first to even join this site cause i feared everyone would call me a horrible person- and so far- yeah one person has-but let that person talk- cause u know i know i feel horrible- but deep down i know i\'m not- i will be praying for u and if u ever need to talk- feel free to write me and i\'ll respond asap ! take care of yourself and keep ur head held high !
Brandi
Oh sweety some people get off on hurting good people and watching them suffer, do not let them see you hurt and they may just leave you alone. Never be scared of your opinion, don\'t let others bring you down, and don\'t leave here I need you, some one said something ugly to me about what I said in my journal, WTH! so what its my journal. Love you hang in there. HUGS
I read this and thing to my self why does their opinion matter, who are these people? Are they better then you? of coarse not they are strugling in life also and they are trying to feel better about them selves by putting others down. That does not make very good friends.
A friend is someone that won\'t judge you and that if you disagree in what they say to you they do not take offence, but continue to talk to you and be possitive.
It is easy to be a bad friend, but you have to work hard on being a good friend but the more you do it the easier it is.
I pray that you get feeling better and realize that even the people that say they don\'t have problems still have problems, it is just the way they handle them. If they hind it will appear they are strong and have no problems but they never deal with them and they become bigger, or they take them on and do the best they can, no one shoud ever put a person down for dothe the best they can. We all all human and we make mistakes.
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Marie, What others think of us is none of our business. You are a sweet lady and hope the depression lifts and you feel better soon. Hugs, Kelly :)
Hello Marie
Do these people know about your past? Do they realize what you have gone through? Are they adults providing for themselves and a son by themselves? I think not you see Marie they are in fear of you as you have shown them you are not a quitter you don\'t give up. They realize Marie is very strong and we must undermind her as she is better then us. So they use these verbal attacks and rumours to try to break you down. Is there someone who has stuck to you besides your son as a friend? If so they are the ones that really count the others don\'t. If there are none in your neighbourhood you could check with mental health about chat groups and meet people that have had similar problems I did that and found about 6 friends that we call one another go for coffee sometimes vent sometimes just shoot the breeze. I hope you feel better soon feel free to message me. Grant
Marie I care and hope you get to feeling better! Don\'t worry about what people say! What the hell do they know. People who say things to hurt you are ignorant, rude and stupid, blow it off. Don\'t give them the satisfaction. I love U, Judy
you have in there marie your a beautiful person and no it is not important what other people think but I MUST SAY THIS i am like you i worry about what people say about me but we shouldnt god loves you just as you are and your beautiful and it isnt improtant what other s think they are not your friends hang in there keep in touch love Joanne