Joined the caregiver group and hope that I meet others that understand that joy/struggle. In some ways, it helps my depression. Can't stay in bed when someone's potty needs emptying ;) In other ways, it contributes to it. Noatter what you do, it is never enough for a needy, sick person. I do try to treasure each day. Some days, though, I would just like a day for myself. Without the guilt trip. I know surely I'm not the only one in this situation, but I still feel I am. It's very isolating, and there are no outlets. I hope this group is soup for my soul :)