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You have read me wrong, and accused me of hurting you. My husband is dead! My husband is dead! My husband is dead! I thought we had a nice visit, and you said I laughed at you? My husband is dead! My husband is dead! My husband is dead! Paranoid much? Why would you even think I'd treat you badly? I'm always thinking of ways to make you happy! My husband is dead! My husband is dead! My husband Is dead! Why did you text me with this petulant drivel? Why not say something while you were here? It breaks my heart that you'd think I'd hurt you, let alone, on purpose. My husband is dead... Hope I can sleep soon. It's 5AM and I want my husband, but he's dead.

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bookdragon
bookdragon

Kim-I am so sad that you are hurting. I hope you manage to get some sleep. Big hug Patti
soalone2to1
soalone2to1

Kim,

Not sure what happened, but I am terribly sorry that someone has done something to hurt you when you are obviously hurting way more than anyone can imagine already. On this grief journey I have learned that people are truly clueless and only think of them selves until they go thru this Hell. Hope your were able to get some much needed sleep before having to face another day alone. Hugs Robyn
loveddogs
loveddogs

Kim, I too am so very sorry that someone has hurt you so deeply! Just know that many are so clueless as to this agonizing journey. Their intentions may be good, but they don\'t realize how sensitive our emotions are now. I hope you get some well deserves rest! Lack of sleep increases all of our emotions. Please let us know how we can help!! Hugs and Love, Michele
staygolden3
staygolden3

I\'m so sorry for the way u were treated esp after having such a good time. Maybe she got jealous of the relationship u were having w your niece? Who knows. Is this unusual for her to react this way? People get weird around our situations. They don\'t know how to handle us. She should have mentioned it in person though. Try to get past this and remember... Maybe something\'s going on in her life that u don\'t know about that\'s troubling her. Sometimes we lash out more at those we love the most. Prayers to you that you all work this out
Darcie
tiger1962
tiger1962

Kim, several months after my wife\'s passing, I met a friend for dinner. After dinner, he refused to contact me any more and then I found out that he blamed me for forgetting to say goodbye when leaving, after a dinner that he paid. I suspect you may be in the similar kind of situation. Try to ignore these kinds of people. It is good NOT to have them any more. Tiger