You haven\'t done anything. Did he say why he\'s not coming back? I would be asking whats wrong with him, not myself. He\'s a fool to think he can run from his responsiblities to the kids and yourself. He he doesn\'t want to face his moral obligations then he had better be able to face the finacial part because he\'s still responsible for that no matter where he goes and if i were you i\'d definitly be talking to council to make sure you and the kids are protected. There is nothing you can do to make him change his mind, he has to do that for himself, but you have to make sure you and the kids are taken care of. Time to get angry my friend, it really makes you wonder how a person can do this to the people they say they love. Kind of makes me wonder if there wasn\'t other issues for him and this was just the topper he needed to make his decision. This whole thing is a mess, and i feel so bad for you and the kids, what should have pulled you\'s together has done the opposite. I know your daughter never meant to have this happen when she took her life. Her actions had nothing to do with either of you. Its too bad he can\'t see that, but hopefully one day soon he will and he can come to his senses and see what his actions are doing this family. My heart is aching for you. I know this is extremely hard deal with especially with everything else but there is a saying i believe is true ( at least it has been for me) and that is \" what doesn\'t kill you will only make you stronger\". I know thats hard to see right now but it is true. Hang in there my friend, your not alone.
I haven\'t been able to keep up with everything I have going on right now too but I wanted to let you know that moe11 is right - it\'s time to get angry. You have done NOTHING. You don\'t deserve this and you need to be prepared - you need an attorney. You need your children to be taken care of and he can\'t just run away from that. I wish I could help. I worked for a family law attorney in Florida for 20 years so if you have any questions that I might be able to answer or find out answers for you, please let me know. Kim
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You haven\'t done anything. Did he say why he\'s not coming back? I would be asking whats wrong with him, not myself. He\'s a fool to think he can run from his responsiblities to the kids and yourself. He he doesn\'t want to face his moral obligations then he had better be able to face the finacial part because he\'s still responsible for that no matter where he goes and if i were you i\'d definitly be talking to council to make sure you and the kids are protected. There is nothing you can do to make him change his mind, he has to do that for himself, but you have to make sure you and the kids are taken care of. Time to get angry my friend, it really makes you wonder how a person can do this to the people they say they love. Kind of makes me wonder if there wasn\'t other issues for him and this was just the topper he needed to make his decision. This whole thing is a mess, and i feel so bad for you and the kids, what should have pulled you\'s together has done the opposite. I know your daughter never meant to have this happen when she took her life. Her actions had nothing to do with either of you. Its too bad he can\'t see that, but hopefully one day soon he will and he can come to his senses and see what his actions are doing this family. My heart is aching for you. I know this is extremely hard deal with especially with everything else but there is a saying i believe is true ( at least it has been for me) and that is \" what doesn\'t kill you will only make you stronger\". I know thats hard to see right now but it is true. Hang in there my friend, your not alone.
I haven\'t been able to keep up with everything I have going on right now too but I wanted to let you know that moe11 is right - it\'s time to get angry. You have done NOTHING. You don\'t deserve this and you need to be prepared - you need an attorney. You need your children to be taken care of and he can\'t just run away from that. I wish I could help. I worked for a family law attorney in Florida for 20 years so if you have any questions that I might be able to answer or find out answers for you, please let me know. Kim