My husband has gone. 20 years of marriage and he walks out on me, right when i need him most, leaving me with 7 kids, 5 of whom are falling apart because they miss their big sister.  He just ups and leaves, i don't even know where he's gone. Cant he see that i need him?

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Oh, hun. I am SO sorry to hear this! I don\'t know the circumstances, but maybe he just left for a few days to get his head together? Not that what he did was right by any means. I just hope for your sake that you two can work things out. Here for you, dear! Adrianne
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Oh my dear I\'m so sorry, Maybe he just needs some time to think and come to terms with what has happened. I know this is hard to deal with on top of everything else, but he\'s hurting too and maybe he\'s not sure how to handle this and just needs some time. Have you tried to find some councilling for yourself and the kids? There has to be programs available where you live. Just give him some time and hopefully he\'ll come to his senses and come back. Men grieve differently then us and alot of them run when they think they\'ve lost control of their lives. He loves you and the kids.