25 Days
I've just realized that I'm 25 days in now, I didn't even realize it was that long. In general things have been really positive, occasionally I feel a pull to divulge in my addiction but yesterday I tried just ignoring it for a while and it seamed to work.
The thing that I'm finding the hardest is when my girlfriend criticizes something, like my lack of progress work wise, though I do do that to myself too. I've made so much progress on here and I know that if I get this right then work will follow, I'm really confident about that. She wants to try for a baby too and I feel a bit like I'd rather have this well and truly behind me first. I can't say to her that I'm focussing on something more important than work right now, so it makes things pretty difficult... though to be honest compared to when I was 'using' I guess I'm getting on pretty well, and I certainly feel less guilt about spending my time and effort on here than I used to feel when I was on other sites,
so hey I think I'm doing pretty well !!!!!!
I hope you're all doing great too!
The thing that I'm finding the hardest is when my girlfriend criticizes something, like my lack of progress work wise, though I do do that to myself too. I've made so much progress on here and I know that if I get this right then work will follow, I'm really confident about that. She wants to try for a baby too and I feel a bit like I'd rather have this well and truly behind me first. I can't say to her that I'm focussing on something more important than work right now, so it makes things pretty difficult... though to be honest compared to when I was 'using' I guess I'm getting on pretty well, and I certainly feel less guilt about spending my time and effort on here than I used to feel when I was on other sites,
so hey I think I'm doing pretty well !!!!!!
I hope you're all doing great too!
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