so...

deleted_user 07/27/2012
Even if it were true, what difference does it make?

There\'s something you are finding unacceptable about yourself, regardless of your weight. That\'s not to be fatalistic, but I think you have a love problem and not a weight problem.

People who love you will love you through thick and thin. Other cultures value \"fatness\" as a sign of prosperity. Our culture is twisted...and fraudulent.

KellyCh13 07/28/2012
I know there is.. I mean there is so much I don\'t like. And you may be right, about the love problem.. But I Definately have a weight problem as well..
I know they will, but It honestly feels like there is no one who truly loves me then.

deleted_user 07/28/2012
Here\'s that love problem again.

As we grow up, we have to \"convert\" our love from one form to another. I mean, there\'s a love a parent gives to a child...and then there\'s that type of love that a lover gives another lover.

Can you distinguish which of these two types of love you are seeking??

One form comes kinda automatically in life...through birth...but then the other type comes from growing up and seeking out the newer form of love...the love of a lover in your life.

KellyCh13 07/28/2012
To be honest... I\'m sure it\'s the lover one.. I feel like that \"love\" is where i always go wrong and end on bad terms with the person...

deleted_user 07/28/2012
It takes an honest attempt at actually asking for someone to love you. It seems as though, in youth, there are so many choices and options and i could see where that could get somebody off balance.

it\'s hard to know what will and what won\'t work, but I think honesty is the best policy...coupled to a willingness to ask a lot of people you think you like to meet you at your point of need.

It\'s good you have the thirst for this...really good sign.