Last night.
Last night i was at a party, with a group of girls who i thought were my friends.. yes, we were drinking, but i'm usually okay when i'm drinking.. well last night i was just chilling, smoking hookah, and chelsea poured a bucket of water on me. i told her that wasn't cool and she told me to kill myself, and i went crazy.. i started crying so much.. i called my friend Case, who talked to me and calmed me down, but chelsea still agged it on.. she acted like it wasn't serious, and it was all a joke.. she knows i've been diagnosed with depression.. it's not a laughing matter to tell someone to kill themselves, it's heartless (IMO) i don't know what to do.. i called the suicide hotline last night and they talked me out of it.. but i feel like i need to be institutionalized for just a bit.. just until i'm stable enough to handle situations like these..
-Kelly.
-Kelly.
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You are exactly correct...what she did was heartless and she used a simple Psychological tactic on you...commonly called \"transferrance\" to get you to wear the sense of shame she deeply feels about herself.
Chelsea has some deep seated issues and she\'s not going to get better without professional help. She\'s probably been abused along the way and...abused people oftentimes become abusers themselves.
In this case, try to understand her...and let it go if you can. You TRULY are the bigger person here. There is really nothing you can do about people like Chelsea. Chelsea can behave like this, in one form or another, for the entirety of her life.
Best thing to do is to find people who are CAPABLE of behaving themselves and treating you good...because you are WORTH IT!!! Young\'un!!!