You know, last night he came over, started crying telling me how he fucked up, how he was so sorry for all he had done to me. He said he knew he was the scum of the earth and that you dont get lower than him......he told me the only reason he walked out that night was because he didnt think that there was any way I would ever forgive him...I told him that I didnt know if I could but that I would have liked the chance to make that choice. So he asked if and how he could fix it, I said I didnt know if we could but for sure there is no way while he is still sleeping and living with her!!! So he says well the first thing I am gonna do is get a job and an appartment. I asked him what he was gonna do untill he gets a job, he said well i am kid of stuck. I told him: well if you think you can stay with her while you are looking for a job and then try to work on our relationship you are sadly mistaken. so he said ok I will get a hotel room for now. well, I thought he was gonna move out of her house last night.... boy was I wrong. We both left my house at the same time cause I had to pick my kids up from my fried who lives next door to her. when I left my friends house an hour later he was still there and when I called him a few hours later he would not answer his cell. So I am pretty sure he stayed and all the tears he cryed and all that stuff was just for show, not sure for what purpose, just to hurt me some more? maybe he just wanted to Fuck her one last time?Well at least I am not crying I am still just numb. The only reason I wanted to even try to work on things was for ur kids, maybe he thought he could just move back in and when he realized that it wasnt going to be that easy he thought screw it that'll be to much effort...well whatever the reaso I guesse he still doesnt get it