Oh my god what an asshole he is...I asked him this morning if he had anything to say to me and he told me he did and that he wanted to come over after work and talk to me. He works untill 5pm at 6:30 he sends me a text and tells me he got fired and that he is at the mall running earans in prep for job search.  So I call him and I tell him that that is a really messed up thing to do (all the while I can hear her and her kids in the backround) and I ask him if he doesnt think that he owes that to me? I said is she scared that I want to go to bed with you or do you not have the balls to talk to me? He said that wasnt it and that he would come later.I asked him if he could give me a timeframe since the kids r at the babysitters and I needed to see if she could watch them that late. so he told me he would be here at 9. I am so mad at him because he is just showing me how little he cares ist like rubbing salt in the wound.... and I am mad at myself for telling him I wanted him to come and talk to me it s like I am begging. He is already so buzy with his new family he cant even give me 1 hour. And since one of my friends lives next door to her I know he has been home a while already.So I guesse I need to take the advice that I have been given and look at his actions rather than his words and just face the fact that he doesnt want me back and he doesnt care at all about me anymore....I dont know what is worse, if they tell you they are sorry and you try to fix it or if they just flat dont care anymore......