I'm doing really good at living my life again....my daughter seen HIM with his new girlfriend and she's younger and not attractive says my child.  I talked to a guy friend of mine and asked him what was wrong with me as this is the third relationship in a row where the guy has left me for a younger ugly woman......he broke it down to me and said that these men are not on your level they think they are until they realize they can't keep up with your maturity.  They then start to feel bad about themselves so go to younger immature women that are easily influenced and don't see them for whom they are.  Made me feel worthy again.....I don't need a child I need a grown man who has himself togther!