took my wedding ring off, pain is great im trying to move on.  actualy am moving on.  when do not feel good about self ware expensive jewerly well.  well it is off my hands. am working on realistate now and self estemem when i get back financialy what was lost, ill lick my wounds and say it was just a bad time in my life full of way to many double messages for me to ever figure out.  me i say life is good, only for today i say life is painful at times when loved ones do not know what they want and change with the wind.  well changed my mind for the day and  each day will find me loving paul less and less because he cant love himself and there is no winning that hand only loosers.  today i love life and myself.