husband blamed me for justt about everything; would tell me my faults but not accept any criticism at all.  when 1st married wanted to laugh; he called me a red streak because allways cleaning practically running around house cleaning and if i didnt pick up a towl put something just where he wanted.   he would unkindly tell me. the problem isif tried to say something he would say i was picking on him and get mad finaly after a few weeks i would blow up and he would aks me to go home. i loved him soo much i was always in tears when he woiuld say mean hateful things. know he loves me only no husband skills. he is very good with others.very very loving and kind.  mind is starting to come out of its fog.  men with hold love and especialy time from me.  took son 3 hours yesterday to stop playing game and watching tv to fix fauced. i do the work then get mad at them