today know im chaseing paul and this makes him run  from me.  also dont realy know him, have cried the most in my total life  in the last 5 yrs.  i tell him everything about me and he very little about him.  tired of the game want to quite but drawn to it. paul is always leaving me all the time and i cry and chase after him feel so alone

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deleted_user

The chasing game, I know it will. As I suggested to you before, I really think you need to stop, don\'t run after him, don\'t run away. Let him know you are simply available. Stop running in any direction. Just stop. Sit down, be a rock, see what happens. He loves you, know doubt about that. Let him come to you, trust him. Be gentle with him. See what happens.
deleted_user
deleted_user

tonight he told me he dosent love me any more and wants the divorce. he has run from me from the begining this throws me off ballance i rush toward him