False Expectations I am learning to keep some hope alive about the possibility of reconciliation but, without all the false expectations I had. I had many false expectations that I placed on my wife and myself. This was setting myself up for an extreme emotional roller coaster. When my false expectations did not become realty it would become emotionally overwhelming. This was nor fair to my wife nor myself. By keeping my expectations in check, it is giving me a sense of realty, a sense of calmness. …..One day at a time.
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I really like that you are trying to be as adult as humanly possible about your situation.I too put expectations on people and they fail me every time.I realize this is hard for you.But,it can be done.God knows I\'ve had my heart handed to me before.And,whether it was my fault or not.It\'s still painful.It really hurts when you\'re genuinely remorseful and want to make a go of working things out.But,at this point,the other party has got other plans.
I am thinking about you my friend, I hope you have something little to smile about today. Lynn