There's been a bunch of things happened over the last few days. My wife and I have had several talks. I’m not sure what this all means. I do think considering some of the conversations we’ve had, we really should back up a bit and hold off on making any decisions about us. That’s to be determined yet. We both need time to thinks about the conversions and digest the meanings. The overall stress and intensity between the two of us has subsided.    Mean while I have started got involved with other things. Somewhere, I’m not sure if it was this site or some other site I was surfing around about making new friends and found a site call www.meetup.com. It’s a site where you can look for things you have interest in and get involved with other people in your area with the same interests. There are over 37000 groups would wide with over 3500 topics. What that means there groups most likely near you. This is not a dating site. Although there are groups dedicated for people who are single or going though divorce. A few of the groups I signed up for are; an adventure group, dining group, movie group, empowerment group, divorce group.  This past Saturday was my first meetup outing. It was with my adventure group. We went on a 9-mile hike on beautiful mountain in my area. The hike was awesome with a great group of people from meetup. On this hike, there were about 15 of us. It was a fun day getting out and meeting new people. You can get out and away and forget about the crap going on for a while. I’m looking forward to more adventures.