It’s looking like 2008 will be the year for my divorce. I talked to my wife tonight. I don’t think she has any hope left. I feel devastated. Even after all we’ve gone though. I thought the pain would not be as bad. I’m LOSING MY BEST FRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MY LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... I can’t type any more…………..
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God I feel you.... if you feel like talking chatting let me know...
:( *hugs*
I am so so sorry, I don\'t know what to say. Know there are people here to help you, please reach out whenever you can, we will be here. Lynn
This is where I was last Christmas only I was the woman on the other side. It is hard on either side of this fence. I can tell you that if you are needy and pushy and demanding you will get less of what you want and more of what you do not want.
I know it is hard not to be emotional. Try to step back and look at your life from the outside. Journal your emotions out on paper. Talking to her when you are distraught will probably not give you the result you want.
She loves you. I know I love my huband till this day. I will always love him. That does not mean I will allow him into my personal space anymore. He pushed me too far and the damage is too severe.
From a females percpective : the only way she will come around is if she starts to trust and dissolve the issues that caused her to withdraw.
Another perspective is that this may not be about YOU. This whole situation may very well be about HER. If it is not about you then there is nothing you will be ablt to say and do to change the outcome.
Be good to yourself. Honor Yourself. Rescept yourself. Understand your worth and value. We all hope to see you happy in the future.