Not much going on. Not much change .....no worse. no better. We have not talked about us for a while, just going though the motions of life. So I'm not sure if this is good, bad or indefference. We talk, somewhat not in depth. We do things together and with the kids. There just is a lot of connection missing between the two of us. Limbo, Limbo, Limbo a state of flex but, like the song......Instead of how low can you go. It's how long can we go.......on like this?
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Be bright light for her to come to. Be the positive influence in her life that she can come to when she needs a word of encouragement. I know it\'s tough but it\'s a journey you obviously are willing to travel.
there are plenty of books i recommend for you to read. you must find out what her language of love is. Certain people respond to certain acts of love differently.
I knew a woman who took a man buying her a ring or any jewelry as a sign that he was cheating on her. I know women that likes getting flowers but connect with leaving notes as true signs of affections.
anyway the books I recommend that you purchase are
getting back together:
the five love languages:
love tactics
Remember in order to restore you marriage there has to be a price tat you are willing to pay. Not only in monetary but in you time to learn what YOU must do in order to get the ball rolling.
Thanks Paulbear
I couldn\'t do it anymore.
I could have stayed but nothing would have changed. Heck I\'m seperated and still nothing has changed he is just as mean.
Be true to your soul. You will live the result of your choices. If you don\'t like things make different choices.