I just found this site to day and decided to join. This is my first entry. I figured I’d give it a try. My wife and myself have been struggling for the last few years. We did a semi separation June to July. Four weeks ago, we talked and she decided she would give it another try and really commit this time to working at it; that end Sunday with and argument and her asking for a divorce. I in my heart I had believed we could make it work. I’m absolutely devastated.  The thought of losing my wife and not seeing my kids on a daily basis, I don’t have words for it.