We are heading downstate to my husbands parents for christmas and he is being the biggest jerk.  I don't know what is bothering him he won't talk to me. I hope the rest of the trip gets alittle better.  I only get to see him 4 days a month and I would like them to be good days.  He has alittle more time off for the holiday but my goodness if holidays have to be like this then I would rather not celebrate them.  I love christmas and we are all excited to be spending time with my in laws well maybe not all of us.  My hubby may be having a problem with this I don't know.  I guess I just figured that because they are his parents that he would be excited.  I guess I need to push alittle harder to get him to let me in.  He is also trying to quit smoking and that is hard for him maybe he needs the cigarettes to deal with his parents.  Who knows it could be I swear chocolate gets me through with my parents LOL.  Wish me luck for the holidays all my DS friends and I wish you all luck and have a great holiday.