i went to A's house today and she and her husband were saying things about me that i know are not true. most people can take a compliment and say thank you and move on but how can you accept it of you know it's just not true? i mean let's be real, i know what i am and i know what i'm not and it's kind of insulting to think that i would actually believe it. i know that i am the designated ugly fat friend. i'm the one that makes the other friends look better than they already do when we go out. i have accepted that role so why do others insist on lying to me? what could they possibly gain by making me feel like a charity case?