And why do I let being single bother me so much?  I don't want to be one of those women who rely on men's approval.  I like myself.  I do.  I like who I am and I think I have a good personality.  I think I am fun to be around and I am comfortable being myself.  I just don't really care for my appearance.  I don't hate it like I used to.  Somehow though my first reaction is always to think of myself as not good enough or inferior to any guy I'm attracted to.  I always think that they are out of my league.  Damn it why should all of this matter so much?

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It shouldn\'t matter.
And another thing, being single is not that bad. Enjoy it while you can. You will find the \"one\" and have a family, etc...
You will not have as much freedom as you have now, so live it up. Party, have a good time, flirt. You are soooo attractive, it\'s crazy. I AM A VERY SUPPERFICIAL GUY, and I can tell you that you are hot. Hot, damnit! I believe that guys may be intimitaded by you because you are so attractive.
If you see a guy you like, just smile and flirt with him and talk. If he seems to be friendly, 99% he likes you. If not, he may be too shy or just not the rigth guy. Move on.
I am actually getting a little frustrated. How can you not think you are attractive? What about you don\'t you like? I just do not understand. I have seem the pictures with your friends. You are not most attractive. I just don\'t get it. I really don\'t.
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Meh, it feels the way it does because you look around and see people \"not that way\" and it feels \"abnormal\"... But trust me it\'s not... You\'ll be the type with more meaningful and less fleeting relationships... someday -they- will envy -you-.

Listen to me, I know everything :-D