I am so frustrated/upset.  I feel really lonely.  It has been a year and 3 months since I have had a boyfriend.  It has been months since I have even had a crush.  I am so annoyed with my lack of love life.  I'm starting to get desperate.  I just need a boy to have fun with.  I want someone to care for me and make me happy.  I miss having a boyfriend a lot.  Even if I can't be in a relationship I could at least date or have fun.  I don't understand why it is so impossible to find someone.  Not having any boy interested in me makes me feel ugly and boring.  I feel like crap.  Why don't boys find me attractive?  Even if I'm not pretty I think my personality would be attractive but I guess not.  I don't get it.  Also, why does it matter if I am taller than the guy?  I know I am 6'1'' but why does that have to matter?  Why is it intimidating.  It shouldn't be.  I am the same person whether I am 6' or 5'.  I see all of my friends dating or having a serious boyfriend and me all alone.  I just don't get it.

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You are beautiful. The time will come and you will meet the most wonderful guy who will love and care for you the way you deserve. Until then, don\'t worry about it. He\'ll come along.

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The problem is, Allie, you are gorgeous beyond belief and the boys are intimidated by you. I know if I were a boy your age, I would be, too. I am telling you, the boys are the insecure one\'s in life dear...especially at your age. Their ego\'s are fragile beyond your wildest imaginations.
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GOOD LAWD 6\'1\"?! zomg zomg... nice :) I\'d only have you beat by an inch... that\'s awesome.... tall, tall girl; but tall girls are always win :)