I'm not very happy with my body today. I fear I've gain weight even though the scale doesn't say that I have. I don't think anyone will be attracted to me.At least my mood is still pretty goodI just wish I was pretty...and thin.
The most attractive thing about someone is true confidence. Confidence means they are happy, which makes them fun to be with and therefore attractive. We only want to be with people who make us feel good, and we have to feel good about ourselves first. You don\'t want to be with someone who makes you feel attractive because you are fighting to be skeletal - that makes you unhappy, them unhappy and is control, not attrraction.
I looked at your photo, Allie - you are lovely and you are thin. So many of us cannot see clearly when we are looking in our own mirrors- I am 50 years old and I still have arguments with my reflection- I just don\'t take them very seriously anymore. Sometimes I stare myself in the eye while grinning fiercely- very fiercely. No matter how badly I am feeling this usually makes me laugh at least for a little while.
Like Venge said, I saw your photo and you are gorgeous! What an adorable smile. :) I agree with HolCol though- true confidence is the most beautiful thing.
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The most attractive thing about someone is true confidence. Confidence means they are happy, which makes them fun to be with and therefore attractive. We only want to be with people who make us feel good, and we have to feel good about ourselves first. You don\'t want to be with someone who makes you feel attractive because you are fighting to be skeletal - that makes you unhappy, them unhappy and is control, not attrraction.
I looked at your photo, Allie - you are lovely and you are thin. So many of us cannot see clearly when we are looking in our own mirrors- I am 50 years old and I still have arguments with my reflection- I just don\'t take them very seriously anymore. Sometimes I stare myself in the eye while grinning fiercely- very fiercely. No matter how badly I am feeling this usually makes me laugh at least for a little while.
you seem to be a very lovely person, I\'ve had two babies. Now you don\'t want to know what kind of toll that can take on your body.
Like Venge said, I saw your photo and you are gorgeous! What an adorable smile. :) I agree with HolCol though- true confidence is the most beautiful thing.